When an elderly family member is in a nursing home, you want to trust that they’re being treated with care and respect. But sometimes that trust can be broken in ways that aren’t always easy to spot.
Noticing the subtle changes in a loved one’s behavior or physical condition can be unsettling, but it can be hard to know if they point to something more serious.
What are the signs?
Abuse in nursing homes can take many forms — some visible and others hidden beneath silence or fear. Physical abuse, like bruises or unexplained injuries, is often the most obvious sign, but emotional and psychological abuse can be just as damaging. A once talkative or cheerful loved one who suddenly becomes agitated, withdrawn or depressed might be signaling that something is out of place. It’s always important to trust your instincts when behavior shifts seem sudden or out of character.
Neglect is another form of abuse that can often go unnoticed. Bedsores, dehydration, malnutrition or poor personal hygiene could all indicate that a facility isn’t taking proper care of its residents. These aren’t just unfortunate oversights — they are violations of both trust and dignity. No one should ever be left to suffer in silence, especially our elders who depend on others for help or protection
Loved ones are often the first or even the only line of defense against nursing home abuse. If you’re seeing signs that something isn’t right, speaking with someone who understands the legal protections in place can help to provide clarity, support and a path forward.
